It’s not the things that hurt us really makes us sad in the end. It’s the things that we were not able to feel or experience because of our cowardice. And cowardice turns to regret. And that feeling of regret is a much deeper definition of sadness itself. We accept love when it comes to us. But not all that comes to us are meant to stay. Sometimes we have to let go of what we have at the moment so God could give us another person to love. That person may not be there to stay. And maybe he will. Who knows? But what is important is that for each love that God has given us, He wants us to learn. And when we are perfect in our learning could He send the one He had prepared for so long. God just needs us to be strong and be open when He would send the right one.
Love may be the last word we want to hear when we are in pain. We often get mad at love songs on the radio and get annoyed at the station that played the most dreaded love song. So we prefer alternative rock because it’s safe and sane for us. But safe and sane also means being alone for fear of getting hurt again. Safe and sane also means living a boring life.
But this certain fear also has consequences. This fear causes us to stay with someone who could no longer give the love that we need and expected. But because of our fear of loneliness do we hold on to that single thread of hope that one day, that someone would change for the better. But after all is said and done, we still end up alone in the end and more broken and shattered than we could have ever been. Because when love has gone, it is gone. There’s no use hoping for it to still be there when it’s no longer there and its existence had just became an illusion all along. Because somewhere along the way, love leaves first before people go separate ways. And often, one of them is hurt the most.
We cannot use reason when our heart is filled with pain. But one thing is for sure. Love never runs dry. It just has its seasons. Sometimes its raining, sometimes its not. And it’s not the love that hurts us. It’s the person behind it. Because love after all is the only thing we can give and give all over again without us running out of it. It’s not like some oil in the dessert that would soon dry out. Because the more love is given the more it multiplies.
Love may be the last word we want to hear when we are in pain. We often get mad at love songs on the radio and get annoyed at the station that played the most dreaded love song. So we prefer alternative rock because it’s safe and sane for us. But safe and sane also means being alone for fear of getting hurt again. Safe and sane also means living a boring life.
But this certain fear also has consequences. This fear causes us to stay with someone who could no longer give the love that we need and expected. But because of our fear of loneliness do we hold on to that single thread of hope that one day, that someone would change for the better. But after all is said and done, we still end up alone in the end and more broken and shattered than we could have ever been. Because when love has gone, it is gone. There’s no use hoping for it to still be there when it’s no longer there and its existence had just became an illusion all along. Because somewhere along the way, love leaves first before people go separate ways. And often, one of them is hurt the most.
We cannot use reason when our heart is filled with pain. But one thing is for sure. Love never runs dry. It just has its seasons. Sometimes its raining, sometimes its not. And it’s not the love that hurts us. It’s the person behind it. Because love after all is the only thing we can give and give all over again without us running out of it. It’s not like some oil in the dessert that would soon dry out. Because the more love is given the more it multiplies.
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